Seeking blessings in the midst of grief does not diminish the pain.  When we learned Zoey had Trisomy 18 we had to shift our focus away from the devastation to making the time we had with her as beautiful, meaningful and amazing as possible.  My time with Zoey brought a deep and endless love to my life.  The best way I can honor that love is to keep looking for ways to once again find beauty and meaning in the messy world where I now live.